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It is up to you whom you marry


Pic by K whiteford

A lot of people, ladies especially go about asking friends and foes if they should marry the person they are with. While we may be able to tell you the shoe looks good on you, only you can tell if it is comfortable enough to walk the full length of the journey you are about to embark on.

Sure we will all come to dance and make merry with you at the wedding but after all said and done and the euphoria induced by the wedding is over we will all go back to living our respective lives leaving the both of you to do your thing.
So in case you are still not sure here are a few questions to ponder on; 

Can your relationship survive without external stimuli? (it could be the constant need to hang out with friends or belong to a social club)

Do you respect this person ? (Do you value their opinion on issues)

Are you happy to do stuff for this person?

Do you feel the need to protect this person?

Or are you merely with this person or contemplating remaining with this person for the rest of your life because everyone think you look good together?
 

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