Maybe you are not fitting in because...

Often times a lot of us try unsuccessfully to fit into a certain class all because we crave to be respected and appreciated. Well how about instead of spending time trying to squeeze into a class where you will probably never be appreciated because you have nothing to offer you concentrate on using that time to develop your self as a person  so that society finds you useful and that way you find the respect and sense of self worth (value) that we all crave as human beings.

 people often respect things they find useful. Stop and ask yourself what am I bringing to the table because nobody can tolerate a parasite for long, so instead of spending that money on another nice pair of dress or shoes that will make You look good on the outside and when people notice you and get closer they find out there is nothing more to you than the nice dress, take up that course that will help you communicate better, spend time or money researching your profession so you are better at your job, go on you tube find out how to fix stuff, learn to conduct yourself properly, have morals, values.

The whole idea is that as a human being always have something to offer because this goes a long way to contributing to how society perceives you either as someone to be respected or not.